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In
Heather's words:
Heather Corinna is the founder and Editor of Scarlet
Letters, Scarleteen
and Femmerotic.
Her written work has appeared online in numerous venues since
1997, and in the print anthologies Viscera, The Adventures
of Food, Aqua Erotica, Zaftig: Well-Rounded
Erotica, The Mammoth Book of Best New Erotica,
Shameless: An Intimate Erotica and forthcoming pieces
in Penthouse and Girl Play. Her work in sexuality
information and activism has hailed accolades from Adult
Video News to the Illinois Library Association, The
City Pages to Playboy, and from the Boston Phoenix
to the Kinsey Institute. She is also a model & photographer,
artist and designer, a poet, a trained classical, jazz and
folk musician, a sex educator and a former kindergarten teacher.
She lives in Minneapolis with an extensive zoo, a pug, and
a stunning androgyne, and has performed the medical miracle
of living for over 32 years on coffee, cigarettes and stubbornness.
undie
girl: Teen sexuality is something we talk about a lot
around WACKYJAC -- if you could give us a recipe for empowering
young women around their sexuality, what would that be?
Heather:
Stop focusing on teaching young women how to say no, and start
focusing on teaching them how to say yes. Yes to their sexuality,
yes to their boundaries and limits, yes to their sexual identity,
whatever it may be, yes to their sexual health and their love
of their bodies, yes to those things which move them, yes
to what makes them feel whole. There's really no need for
so many "no's" when you learn to say yes in to the
right things, and sexuality shouldn't be experienced in the
negative -- when it is, one misses out on an awful lot.
undie
girl: Tell us about what it's like merging Wicca and
Buddhism.
Heather:
They're not as different as they might seem. For me, the biggest
adjustment was doing away with entities, which was the part
of Wicca that personally, just never really fit for me, save
seeing them as natural archetypes. otherwise, "As it
harm none," really is the underlying message of both
Wicca and Buddhism -- both seek to recognize what suffering
is, and to help one live a life that is as free of suffering
as possible, in both experiencing it oneself, and in working
to keep from making others suffer. Both very much look to
the nature world for inspiration and harmony; both focus on
compassion and respect for oneself and others.
undie
girl: Do you remember your first pair of undies?
Heather:
I'd be amazed if I even HAD undies until well into my childhood.
Nearly all of our clothes were hand-me-downs, but given my
mothers aversion to germs (she's an infectious disease nurse),
my guess is we'd likely have gone without rather than wearing
underpants that couldn't have been sanitized to within an
inch of their life.
undie
girl: What were the last pair of undies you bought
like?
Heather:
Sheer aqua mesh boy-shorts with cabbage roses all over them.
I'm of the more-is-more school of underpants.
undie
girl: Whats your favorite thing to do in your
undies?
Heather:
Jump on the bed in them. It's my favorite thing to do out
of them, too.
undie
girl: What kind of statement can undies make?
Heather:
I'd say that depends on how much sleep you're not getting.
undie
girl: Have you ever sworn off of wearing undies? Can
you tell us why?
Heather:
I go alfresco a good deal of the time, namely because by virtue
of working in a home office, I hardly get dressed to begin
with, but tend to have several uniforms of pajamas I rotate.
Plus, less undies = less laundry. However, I will attest to
feeling a good deal peppier in fun underpants.
undie
girl: Have you ever had an argument over undies?
Heather:
Only when I've stolen pairs that weren't mine. And I'd say
that's fair.
undie
girl: Has anyone made assumptions about you because
of your undies? What were they? How did that make you feel?
How right were they?
Heather:
You know, most people close enough to me to be in the position
to make assumptions about my undies have generally assumed
I'd like them removed at some point. And more times than not,
they've been right.
undie
girl: Finally -- sex, spirit, power, and freedom --
how do all of these play into your life? Do they fuse? Do
they fight? Tell us a story.
Heather:
My personal life goals are all about union. I've found that
those elements rarely battle within myself, and instead live
very harmoniously, but are often put to conflict in culture,
as the perception is that they are conflicting. But they don't
need to be: sex need not conflict with the spiritual if your
sexual practices align with your spiritual beliefs, and if
when they don't, you simply find what you need to adapt to
make that work. And freedom and power need not conflict if
the sort of power you're harnessing is power-within, rather
than power-over.
Don't
miss her personal site with her award-winning journal, Pure
as the Driven Slush), and tell her we say Hi there, tiger.
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